SO BUSY THAT YOU DON’T HAVE ENOUGH TIME FOR YOU?
THEN JOIN US FOR A HEALING 3-DAY WEEKEND!
Is your life so busy it’s hard to “do you” or do deep healing work?
Or do you just crave a few days to relax, reconnect and re-energize?
Either way this Self-Love Retreat has got you covered!
…. Imagine the energy and rejuvenation you will feel after spending three extraordinary days and nights in the exclusive company of spiritual, motivated and enterprising women just like you!
The “Fall Self-Love” retreat is a gathering of soul-centered, savvy and open-hearted women gathered in nature to catch your breath… recharge and just BE.
The power of feminine energy in a healing, group setting is unmatchable!
It’s filled to the brim with laughter, love, open hearts, insight and wisdom. It’s a weekend of unforgettable memories, friendships and the building blocks of a spiritual community to support YOU in your soul journey!
The saying goes you are the average of the five people you spend most of your time with… these weekends are filled with women you want to spend your life with! Women who know how to uplift you, uplevel themselves and unleash their creative, sexy and loving feminine energy and intentions into the world!
You don’t just deserve it. You need it. The world needs you now more than ever… and if it’s not you, then who?
Now is the time, because together we are SO much more than the sum of our parts.
WHAT YOU WILL WALK AWAY WITH…
Feeling refreshed, rejuvenated and reconnected with your inner Goddess and true self.
Complete relaxation of your mind-body; being waited on, cared for and pampered including a 90-min healing massage.
Experience living a healthy, balanced spiritual life with healthy foods, fun and mindfulness practices.
Learn healing tools and practices you can take home to empower yourself and your own soul work.
Using nature to do healing and mindfulness work.
Embodiment of inner peace and calm, tapping into your vibrant feminine energy and feeling recharged.
The inspiration and energy you need to step into the life you love and dream of.
A community of like minded women who will become your support tribe and life long friends.
Discovering yourself at a deeper level and unleashing your feminine power!
And… what if you could get answers to ALL your questions in real time from a Relationship & Sexual Wellness coach who understands your struggles, desires… AND cares about you?
Would all THIS be worth coming to the Mountains of Arizona?
THE HEALTHY CUISINE
Eating organic, healthy and clean food takes time, effort and knowledge. Time that you don’t always have. Or knowledge you may not know. Just leave it up to us! We will nourish your body right along with your mind and spirit!
From the moment you arrive you’ll be pampered with smiles and service! For once you get to sit back and let someone serve YOU! You get to enjoy a meal cooked just for you that meets all your dietary restrictions. And you don’t even have to do dishes! We will pour your glass of wine while you gather among friends, laugh and relax!
Your weekend starts with a happy hour full of tasty Hors d’Oeuvres, a hearty (and healthy!) charcuterie board, wine and sweet bites! Mingle among new and old friends while you decompress from your life and settle into a weekend of being nurtured.
You’ll awake in the cool mornings to the smell of coffee and the sounds of a teapot whistling! Take your cup on the patio with a blanket and watch the sunrise. Or get a mini 3-day detox by starting with a fresh made green juice! Let your body absorb all those nutrients during a Yoga Nidra meditation. Your gut and mind will love you for it!
WHETHER YOU ARE VEGETARIAN, VEGAN, FLEXITARIAN, KETO, PALEO. GLUTEN, DAIRY OR SUGAR FREE… WE GOT YOU!
You just tell us what your restrictions and needs are – then don’t worry about a thing!
After a morning of fresh juice and meditation, enjoy a European style Breakfast bar with all the protein you need in eggs, bacon, and sliced meats; fruits, nuts, avocado, nuts, gluten free toast and jam or oatmeal! Or take your detox further and juice fast until lunch!
Variety is the spice of life and your lunches and dinners have been designed to deliver! It might just be the All American baked potato buffet! Or maybe you want to salsa through the Fajita Bar with Sangria or savor the Orient strolling the Asian noodle bar. We promise you’ll find something you love and won’t leave hungry!
DELICIOUS & HEALTHY…
LET US NOURISH YOUR BODY AND PAMPER YOU!
TESTIMONIALS
THEN WE WANT TO TAKE YOU ON A DATE FRIDAY & SATURDAY NIGHT…
GET YOUR LITTLE DRESS, BLUE JEANS OR PAJAMA’S ON FOR A CANDLELIGHT DINNERS JUST FOR YOU!
With yummy appetizers, bubbly and an air of feeling special we will wine and dine you! After two days of relaxation, quiet nature and feminine rejuvenation you’ll be ready for a fun, sexy night!
Enjoy the ambiance of a beautiful setting… candlelight…the aroma of dinner… music… and a table full of laughter! With a hearty steak (or alternative) dinner and dessert guaranteed to make your mouth water… you’ll feel like a Queen!
Once satiated with a delicious dinner you’ll segue into a fun evening talking astrology, tarot cards and sexuality! Get ready for more wine, laughter, insight and unforgettable memories! We promise the fellowship at the table will be one of your favorite parts.
WE PROMISE THESE WILL BE A DATES YOU NEVER FORGET!
STAY HEALTHY PRECAUTIONS.
Say YES to yourself for a weekend of catalytic healing, and deep soul replenishment with beautiful like minded women. Be a part of a transformative weekend, creating community and life long friends. All while you soothe your sexy, inner Goddess with nature, healthy food, wine, wisdom, healing, meditation, yoga and the soul work your Higher Self is hungry for!
AirBnB and Sextacular® are taking all the necessary safety precautions to ensure your health is protected with extra sanitization. We request that everyone ensure they are negative for CoVid in the 72-hours prior to arrival (asymptomatic, tested, no known exposure or out of country travel.) Vaccination is not required. You are welcome to wear a mask, but they are not required. As a participant of this group event you assume all liability of risk and exposure to CoVid or conditions.
“A woman in harmony with her spirit is like a river flowing. She goes where she will without pretense and arrives at her destination prepared to be herself and only herself.”
~ Maya Angelou
YOUR INCLUDED MASSAGE
Massage is the art and science of healing that addresses the whole person - mind, body and spirit. Ivan Dalton, LMT is an 18-year veteran practitioner who integrates conventional and alternative therapies for chronic disease and muscle dysfunction with detailed soft tissue manipulation. He brings a healing energy and release to your body that is unmatched.
Once people have experienced his massages they say “That’s the best massage I have ever had!” When they get other massages you will hear them say “Well it was good, but it wasn’t an Ivan Massage.” He is dedicated to providing clients with innovative nurturing treatments and continuing education to promote relaxation and self-healing.
He is a trusted practitioner Dr. Lori has worked with for over 7 years and sent all her friends and family too! You couldn’t be in better hands for healing body work. It will be one of your favorite parts of the retreat!
Once you register for the retreat you’ll receive a link to schedule your massage. Appointments are first come, first serve on Friday November 25th & Saturday November 26th only
WHY YOU SHOULD INVESTMENT IN YOURSELF
Healing is not just a one person job… It takes a witness. A weekend of catalytic healing using the power of a group is like a turbo charge jump start for release and spiritual ascension!
There is superb evidence based research that shows how group intention can heal long-standing conditions, mend fractured relationships, reduce violence, and even rekindle a sense of purpose in one’s life. Which is exactly why we created this getaway.
We know 1:1 coaching is powerful and effective… now imagine the empowerment and results with the undeniable efficacy of group healing!
It will not only benefit you – it will set the foundation for women after you for years to come. Women empowering women!
Struggling to create healthy practices into your daily life?
Exhausted? Not taking enough time for YOU?
Has your libido decreased or is it gone altogether?
Not sure how to be more in your feminine energy?
Wishing you had more friends in the “wake up” process that really understood?
JOIN US FOR A 6-WEEK DEEP DIVE TO GET IT ALL!
Your loyalty and commitment to health is so appreciated that we want to gift you with a special *BONUS GIFT*!
Register by the first EARLY BIRD date of December 12, 2022 and your BONUS GIFT is FREE access to the upcoming Sextacular® Course…. Awaken Your Erotic Power & Passion! A $499 value for absolutely free!
It’s perfect for you whether you are single, married, dating, sexless or having great sex. It actually doesn’t matter because this course is about unleashing YOUR inner sexy and erotic femininity from the inside out!
REGISTER FOR THE EARLY BIRD DATE BY December 12, 2022 AND YOU’LL RECEIVE ACCESS TO THIS BONUS GIFT VALUED AT $499 FOR FREE!
YOUR WEEKEND EXPERIENCE
THURSDAY… STEP INTO SISTERHOOD
Imagine stepping into the nurturing energy of the mountains in Flagstaff, Arizona and taking a breath of fresh air! Your weekend of unwinding begins in a desert state with hidden forests, rich in Mother Earth energy and healing.
Your weekend will start with a happy hour full of energy, connections, laughter and new friends also looking to soothe their soul. The decadent charcuterie board, wine and sweets will be worth the wait! The evening will end with a Sharing Circle around the firepit… bring your sweaters and scarfs because it really does get cold in Arizona!
FRIDAY… TUNE INTO YOUR SPIRIT
Wake up to the quiet mountain view on the back patio and several options for guided soul work. You can sleep in or choose gentle Yoga Nidra meditation, stretching or take a Nature Walk. Or maybe you’ll start the weekend with your 90 min. Massage! Whichever you choose, it’s all designed to re connect you to self, get centered and relax into your feminine Goddess!
We start by tuning into your body-mind-spirit to restore balance and give you that big SIGH of relaxation. After hot coffee or tea and a healthy breakfast, you’ll be ready to jump into your day and nurture your spirit!
Friday’s group sessions are designed to be bonding and open your heart for deeper healing work and relaxation. You will start to discover that everything you experience is intentionally designed as a practice for daily life and to help you build healthy habits!
After a soulful day, get ready for Friday’s fun date night! Everyone will join the group dinner table for tasty Mexican food in an Astrology themed Fiesta! Participants will get a deeper understanding of self via astrology insights!
The chefs and Sextacular® team will pamper and wait on you! We want to nourish your body with yummy food; your mind with juicy astrology insights and your soul with the connection and laughter of a goddess tribe!
SATURDAY… DISCOVER FEMININITY
Your morning will begin again with fresh green juice to nourish your body and brain! You have the same options for nature walks, 90-min massage time or doing the group Yoga Nidra meditation. You’ll be excited for hot coffee and the delicious breakfast prepared by the loving chefs! Fun and relaxation will be in the air after a releasing first day.
Saturday is about tapping into your creative feminine energies! The agenda will be full of epic activities that are designed to heal, inspire and elevate you like - scavenger hunts, arts & crafts, coloring mandalas or making gorgeous Journey Sticks. Or maybe you want to play with tarot cards! You’ll get to pick. (INSERT PICTURE of journey stick?)
Your afternoon may be napping, a nature walk, creative activities, or your 90-min massage… you get to indulge in whatever you like without feeling guilty!
There is also an opportunity to participate in a group Matrix Re Imprinting healing session. Set up like a typical meditation, Dr. Lori will lead you into a hypnotic like state. From here you’ll connect with your inner child and/or higher self and go into your matrix to re imprint something that will elevate your healing and growth. You don’t even have to know what that is, you can just show up and it will unfold perfectly! All you need is a blanket, pillow and an open mind!
Saturday night is your sexy date night! Get your glow on with a decadent Aphrodisiac Tarot card themed dinner and dessert. This night is another unforgettable favorite! Spirit moves through good food, creative feminine energy, goddess tribe connections and beautiful Tarot cards. Each card is pulled and read just for you! Get the spiritual nudge, insight or affirmation you’ve been looking for!
SUNDAY…FREE YOUR SOUL
Sunday morning is your final morning to enjoy fresh green juice and Yoga Nidra meditation. By now you’ll be in love with both and want to implement the healthy mindfulness practices at home! After your morning soulwork you’ll have time to pack and get ready for the Bon Voyage Brunch!
You’ll join the fellowship table for your final group meal and journey home! This gathering will integrate the weekend’s insights, healing, growth and activities in a loving send off you’ll never forget!
The group will close the weekend with a final sharing circle with new friends. You will hear, see and feel the impact of self-care, self-love, connection, nature, mindfulness work, healthy food, inner healing and the power of bearing witness for others to heal.
THEN WITH HUGS AND MUCH LOVE, WE WILL BID YOU FAREWELL UNTIL WE SEE YOU AGAIN!
YOUR WEEKEND EXPERIENCE
DON’T MISS THIS MAGICAL WEEKEND!
WHAT’S INCLUDED:
3 Nights and 4 days of accommodations in a private vacation house in Flagstaff, Arizona.
3 1/2 days of a deep dive in soul sessions, mindfulness work, meditations, activities and lots of juicy conversations!
A pre-trip preparation meeting to ask questions, meet travel companions and create intentions.
A post-trip follow up Zoom meeting to discuss integration challenges and outcomes
ALL planned programming and healing soul work: Yoga, Yoga Nidra, QHHT, EFT, Matrix Re Imprinting, Soul Journey Hypnotherapy, Astrology, Human Design and sex talk!
A 1 Hour and 45 Minute Massage
3 healthy breakfasts with freshly made green juice to kick start your day!
3 tasty lunches to satisfy you but not put you to sleep
3 delicious combinations of dinners from hearty happy hour, food buffet bars and the decadent aphrodisiac dinner Saturday night.
All non-alcoholic drinks, coffee, a 24-hour Tea Bar & freshly made green juice
Wine and Prosecco will be provided, along with healthy snacks + chocolate sweets (You are free to bring your preferred wines)
ALL meals and snacks will be catered to allergies and sensitivities
Use of the house WiFi, HOT TUB, games and fenced yard
House is a spacious two levels with large outdoor patio deck and panoramic views
Location is in a neighborhood on the outskirts of downtown Flagstaff with plenty of parking and privacy
WHAT’S NOT INCLUDED:
YOUR RETREAT PACKAGE DOES NOT INCLUDE:
Transportation fees to or from Flagstaff, AZ
Other alcoholic beverages not included in itinerary
Meals not included on the itinerary
Your shopping, additional purchases or any excursions
At an elevation of 7,000 feet Flagstaff is the city of 7 Wonders with some of the most spectacular scenery in the world and surrounded by 7 National Monuments, including the Grand Canyon. Flagstaff is a hopping college town in Arizona surrounded by mountains, desert and ponderosa pine forests. It’s a gateway to the San Francisco Peaks, home to Arizona’s tallest mountain (Humphreys Peak) and the Arizona Snowbowl ski resort. Nearby, Wupatki National Monument has Native American pueblo sites, and Walnut Canyon National Monument is dotted with their cliff dwellings.
At high altitude the sun is more intense and it is possible to experience fatigue and shortness of breath. Drink plenty of water, rest often and wear sunglasses and a hat.
Spending time outdoors at 7,000 feet can lead to sunburn on cool and cloudy days as quickly as on warm and sunny ones. Remember to apply sunscreen before you venture out.
Make layered clothing a key factor when packing. Be prepared for possible (and sudden) changing weather including snowfall in the winter months.
WHAT TO PACK in September – October. It’s the perfect season to enjoy the fall colors! Days are comfortably cool and refreshing with slightly chilly evening temperatures.
A luxury 3200 square foot vacation home located in Flagstaff, Arizona. Enjoy the cool pine air at an elevation of 7000'. Set in a highly desired cul-de-sac yet contains an urban trail and greenbelt just outside the back door! This home has it all and is gorgeous inside, no detail spared! Relax and enjoy the newly added hot tub. This is a 2 level home with 6 bedrooms and 3.5 baths. Bedrooms will be assigned first come first serve along with needs based. The Master will either be occupied by your Concierge Coaching Support team member or a guest who allows the room to be used Friday and Saturday for table massages.
Sleeping arrangements are first come first serve and will be ironed out to meet everyone’s needs. If you have a preference or special needs please indicate on your registration form.
Ground Level:
Bedroom 2: Queen bed with en-suite full bathroom (1-2 guests)
Bedroom 3: King bed (1- 2 guests)
Upstairs:
Bedroom 1: Master bedroom, king bed, large master bath suite. (2 guests)
Bedroom 4: King bed with HDTV. (1-2 guests)
Bedroom 5: Full size bed and twin size bed with HDTV. (2 guests)
Bedroom 6: 3 twin sized beds with HDTV. (3 guests)
WHAT YOU GET
Feeling refreshed, rejuvenated and reconnected with your inner Goddess and true self.
Complete relaxation of your mind-body; being waited on, cared for and pampered.
Experience living a healthy, balanced spiritual life with healthy foods, fun and mindfulness practices.
Learn healing tools and practices you can take home to empower yourself and your own soul work.
Using nature to do healing and mindfulness work.
Embodiment of inner peace and calm, tapping into your vibrant feminine energy and feeling recharged.
The inspiration and energy you need to step into the life you love and dream of.
A community of like minded women who will become your support tribe and life long friends.
Discovering yourself at a deeper level and unleashing your feminine power!
THE EXPERIENCE
A TYPICAL DAY
ARRIVAL DAY – THURSDAY
3 – 5 pm Check In
5:00 pm Welcome Happy Hour
8:00 pm Intention Sharing Circle @ Fire Pit
DEPARTURE DAY – SUNDAY
8:30 am Yoga Nidra Meditation + Fresh Green Juice
10:00 am Bon Voyage Brunch
12:00 pm Completion Circle
12:30 pm Pack & Checkout
TYPICAL RETREAT DAY – FRIDAY, SATURDAY
8:30 am Yoga Nidra Meditation (optional but encouraged!)
8 -10 am Breakfast Buffet Available
10:00 am Morning Group Circle
1:00 pm Lunch Buffet
4:00 pm Afternoon Group Circle
7:00 pm Dinner Buffet or Sit Down
8:00 pm Evening Group Circle
9:30 pm Retreat to fire pit, games, or room
YOUR WEEKEND EXPERIENCE
Your presence is as much my gift as it is yours and the other women you can impact. If you are still reading this then consider despite all your ego’s circumstances and concerns… your soul has led you here for a reason. It’s up to you to grab the hand that reaches for your greatness!
WHILE YOU MAY NOT BE SURE, YOUR SOUL IS A YES FOR THIS CATALYTIC HEALING OPPORTUNITY!
THE RETREAT TEAM
YOUR RETREAT LEADER
Dr. Lori is a results driven Life, Relationship & Sexual Wellness Coach who specializes in behavior modification. Her unique Sextacular® coaching, programs and events inspire others to “Make Love to Life! She empowers women, men and couples to have a good relationship with themselves and others; and to be healthy, happy, and passionate from the inside out.
She is a published author, TEDx speaker, former host of the Sextacular®YOU! radio-podcast, national speaker and has 28 years experience in health care, higher education and leadership development.
Results driven, her knack is creating special programs for exactly who you are and what you need to achieve the results you want. Not for the faint of heart, she is a catalytic and “velvet-hammer” coach who works efficiently and effectively. She wants you in your LIFE living, not in talk therapy.
Her teachable toolbox ranges from evidence based behavioral science, neuro plasticity skills (rewiring your brain), to therapeutic philosophies (CBT, DBT, ACT,) mindfulness (yoga, meditation, Yoga Nidra) and spiritual modalities (Astrology, Tarot, intuitive readings, Matrix Re-Imprinting, QHHT and EFT.)
Dr. Lori has dedicated her life to the health, sexual and spiritual wellness of others through her own challenges and healing journey. Learn more or schedule a complimentary 10min call at www.DrLoriEbert.com or email drlori@drloriebert.com.
CHEF DE CUISINE
Meet Vickie Stoddard, the kitchen manager and master of food! Also an excellent chef herself! Dr. Lori’s mother, along with a son and two granddaughters. She has been married for 37+ years and is the matriarch of the family. She brings balance, care, compassion and service everywhere she goes! A dedicated volunteer, former Hospice worker, she offers insight, organization and excellent problem solving. Reliable, fun and loving she will ensure your food is perfect! She is also dog mom to Lizzie, a yoga and Pickle Ball enthusiast and lives in Phoenix, Arizona.
CHEF DE PARTIE
Meet Kathy Slames, the other kitchen manager and master of fun! An excellent chef as well, she brings fun wherever she goes! She is Dr. Lori’s aunt, and Vickie’s sister. She also has two sons and six grand kids! She has been married for 45+ years and is the sunshine of the family. She brings happiness, silly fun and spirit everywhere she goes! Fun and loving, she will ensure you have what you need with a smile. She is a cat mom, loves food, arts & crafts and living by the lake in Ft. Sumner, New Mexico!
LICENSED MASSAGE THERAPIST
Meet Ivan F. Dalton, LMT - 18 year industry veteran. Ivan is a Massage practitioner who empowers others to achieve optimal health. As an Arizona state licensed Massage Practitioner, he is honored and grateful to have performed over 10,000 hours of therapeutic massage in the Phoenix Valley. He enjoys educating patients to understand their bodies and discover the gentle power of the healing arts. As a Massage Practitioner, he most enjoys bridging the gap between western medicine and the “alternatives” while providing a safe and nurturing atmosphere in which to heal.
CONCIERGE COACHING ASSISTANT
Meet Tammy - your Concierge Go-To Goddess of Happiness! She will help ensure happiness and effectiveness for guests and the team. She will support guests with their needs and assist Dr. Lori and her team during the retreat. She will help ensure all your food needs are met as well as your satisfaction before, during and after the retreat.
Tammy is a leader in her own community and a small business owner. An Aesthetician and owner of The Skin Cafe’, she is passionate about making women feel special and beautiful.She is an avid seeker of self growth, spirituality and empowering others. She is the light to which many women flock to for beauty, love, support and feeling like their best selves. Her natural creativity with her craft spills over into every part of her life as a cook, caterer, decorator, flower arranger and friend! Once you meet her, you never forget her!
SEXTACULAR SPRING 2023
RETREAT PRICING
Client Special
20% Discount
Select clients can use coupon code with early bird
Bring Friend Special
$200 Cash Back
at check in or can be gifted
CANCELLATION POLICY:
Any cancellation made before: January 23, 2023 and will result in a loss of 25% of the trip price. Any cancellation made after: January 23, 2023 will result in a 50% loss of funds. We reserve the right to cancel the trip if it is not meeting the trip minimum (in which case you will be refunded in full).
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First come first serve!