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Which Sextacular® Sovereignty Archetype Are You?
Answer 9 quick questions to discover your archetype and get your ✨Spark Solution ✨Report by email.
1) Lately, my core struggle feels most like...
Feeling invisible or unsure who I am now.
Love feels flat; passion and closeness are missing.
Running on fumes; body and energy feel drained.
I give to everyone else and leave myself last.
I go it alone; letting people in is hard.
2) When decisions pile up, I...
Freeze or second-guess what I truly want.
Avoid conflict to keep the peace.
Push through even if I am depleted.
Say yes before checking my bandwidth.
Handle it solo rather than ask for help.
3) My body signals are telling me...
I need clarity and direction.
I want warmth, touch, and deeper intimacy.
Rest, nourishment, and regulation first.
Boundaries, please. I am overextended.
It is time to reconnect with my people.
4) My relationship pattern looks like...
Losing myself to belong.
We function; we rarely flirt or play.
No energy left for connection.
I over-function; resentment builds.
Safer at a distance than vulnerable.
5) The belief that trips me up is...
I do not know who I am anymore.
Love fades; that is just how it goes.
My needs come last until I burn out.
If I do not do it, it will fall apart.
People are not dependable; I rely on me.
6) What I secretly want next is...
To claim my voice and direction.
Real intimacy and turned-on chemistry.
Sustainable energy and glow.
Freedom from over-responsibility.
Safe, soulful belonging.
7) My boundary style is...
Foggy; I bend to fit others.
Neutral; feelings stay muted.
Thin; I am too tired to hold them.
Leaky; I overcommit quickly.
Firm walls; few get close.
8) Under stress I usually...
Lose self-trust and seek outside answers.
Go numb and detach.
Crash; my body says stop.
Do more and carry others.
Isolate and handle it alone.
9) My growth edge is...
Sovereignty: authoring my life.
Sacred intimacy and play.
Restoring my SoulFire body.
Liberating my mind and time.
Receiving support and belonging.
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