Ready for a break and stillness?

Get away from your busy demanding life to be pampered! RELAX in nature’s silence with spiritual, like-minded women. RECHARGE your body with rest, healthy foods, green juice and wine! RE-ENERGIZE feminine energy and libido! RECONNECT to yourself in a healing, high vibration space and REJUVENATE your soul!



Take a peak at our retreats…


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Craving time to relax… reconnect and re energize?


So busy that you don’t have enough time for you?


Then join us for a healing weekend!


…. Imagine the energy and rejuvenation you will feel after spending three extraordinary days and nights in the exclusive company of spiritual, motivated and enterprising women just like you!  

The “Spring Into Self” retreat is a gathering of soul-centered, savvy and open-hearted women gathered in nature to catch your breath… recharge and just BE.

The power of feminine energy in a healing, group setting is unmatchable!

It’s filled to the brim with laughter, love, open hearts, insight and wisdom.  It’s a weekend of unforgettable memories, friendships and the building blocks of a spiritual community to support YOU in your soul journey!

The saying goes you are the average of the five people you spend most of your time with… these weekends are filled with women you want to spend your life with!  Women who know how to uplift you, uplevel themselves and unleash their creative, sexy and loving feminine energy and intentions into the world!

You don’t just deserve it.  You need it.  The world needs you now more than ever… and if it’s not you, then who?

Now is the time, because together we are SO much more than the sum of our parts!


What YOU are going to Walk Away With…


  • Feeling refreshed, rejuvenated and reconnected with your inner Goddess and true self.


  • Complete relaxation of your mind-body; being waited on, cared for and pampered.


  • Experience living a healthy, balanced spiritual life with healthy foods, fun and mindfulness practices.


  • Learn healing tools and practices you can take home to empower yourself and your own soul work.


  • Using nature to do healing and mindfulness work.


  • Embodiment of inner peace and calm, tapping into your vibrant feminine energy and feeling recharged. 


  • The inspiration and energy you need to step into the life you love and dream of.


  • A community of like minded women who will become your support tribe and life long friends.


  • Discovering yourself at a deeper level and unleashing your feminine power!


And… what if you could get answers to ALL your questions in real time from a Relationship Sexual Wellness coach who understands your struggles, desires… and cares about you?


Would all THIS be worth coming to the Mountains of Arizona?



Relax.   Reconnect.  Recharge.

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The Healthy Cuisine



Eating organic, healthy and clean food takes time, effort and knowledge.  Time that you don’t always have.  Or knowledge you may not know.  Just leave it up to us!  We will nourish your body right along with your mind and spirit!


From the moment you arrive you’ll be pampered with smiles and service! For once you get to sit back and let someone serve YOU!  You get to enjoy a meal cooked just for you that meets all your dietary restrictions.  And you don’t even have to do dishes!  We will pour your glass of wine while you gather among friends, laugh and relax!



Your weekend starts with a happy hour full of tasty Hors d’Oeuvres, a hearty (and healthy!) charcuterie board, wine and sweet bites!  Mingle among new and old friends while you decompress from your life and settle into a weekend of being nurtured.


You’ll awake in the cool mornings to the smell of coffee and the sounds of a tea pot whistling!  Take your cup on the patio with a blanket and watch the sunrise.  Or get a mini 3-day detox in by starting with a fresh made green juice!  Let your body absorb all those nutrients during a Yoga Nidra meditation. Your gut and mind will love you for it!



Whether you are Vegetarian.  Vegan.  Flexitarian.  Keto.  Paleo. Gluten, Dairy or Sugar Free.  We got you!


You just tell us what your restrictions and needs are – then don’t worry about a thing!



After a morning of fresh juice and meditation enjoy a European style Breakfast bar with all the protein you need in eggs, bacon, and sliced meats; fruits, nuts, avocado, nuts, gluten free toast and jam or oatmeal!  Or take your detox  further and intermittent fast until lunch!


Variety is the spice of life and your lunches and dinners have been designed to deliver!  Whether you want to salsa through the Fajita Bar with Sangria or savor the Orient strolling through the Asian noodle bar you’ll find something you love!  It might just be the All American baked potato buffet!




Delicious & Healthy…


Let us nourish your body and pamper YOU!

Then we want to take you on a date Saturday night…



Get your little dress, blue jeans or pajama’s on for a candlelight dinner just for YOU!


With yummy appetizers, bubbly and an air of feeling special we will wine and dine you!  After two days of relaxation, quiet nature and feminine rejuvenation you’ll be ready for a fun, sexy night!

Enjoy the ambiance of a beautiful setting… candlelight…the aroma of dinner… music… and a table full of laughter!  With a hearty steak (or alternative) dinner and dessert guaranteed to make your mouth water… you’ll feel like a Queen!

Once satiated with a delicious dinner you’ll segue into a fun evening talking astrology and sexuality!  Get ready for more wine, laughter, insight and unforgettable memories!


We promise this will be a date you’ll never forget!



I am saying YES to ME.


Stay Healthy Precautions.

Say YES to yourself for a weekend of catalytic healing, and deep soul replenishment with beautiful like minded women.  Be a part of a transformative weekend, creating community and life long friends.  All while you soothe your sexy, inner Goddess with nature, healthy food, wine, wisdom, healing, meditation, yoga and the soul work your Higher Self is hungry for!

We are taking all necessary safety precautions to ensure your health is protected with extra sanitization.  We request that everyone ensure they are negative for CoVid in the 72-hours prior to arrival (asymptomatic, tested, no known exposure or out of country travel.)  Vaccination is not required.  You are also welcome to wear a mask, but they are not required.  As a participant of this group event you assume all liability of risk and exposure.


“A woman in harmony with her spirit is like a river flowing.  She goes where she will without pretense and arrives at her destination and prepared to be herself and only herself.”
~ Maya Angelou

An Investment in SELF. 


Healing is not just a one person job… it takes a witness.  A weekend of catalytic healing using the power of group is like a turbo charge jump start for release and spiritual ascension!


There is superb evidence based research that shows how group intention can heal long-standing conditions, mend fractured relationships, reduce violence, and even rekindle a sense of purpose in one’s life.  Which is exactly why we created this getaway.


We know 1:1 coaching is powerful and effective… now imagine the empowerment and results with the undeniable efficacy of group healing!


It will not only will it benefit you – it will set the foundation for women after you for years to come.  Women empowering women!  


  • Struggling to create healthy practices into your daily life?


  • Exhausted?  Not taking enough time for YOU?


  • Has your libido decreased or is it gone altogether?


  • Not sure how to be more in your feminine energy?


  • Wishing you had more friends in the “wake up” process that really understood?


Join us for a 3-day deep dive to get it ALL!


Your loyalty and commitment to health is so appreciated that we want to gift you with a special *BONUS GIFT*!


Register by the first EARLY BIRD date of March 21, 2022 and your BONUS GIFT is FREE access to the upcoming Sextacular® Course…. Awaken Your Erotic Power & Passion! A $499 value for absolutely free!

The Awaken EROTIC Power & Passion© course is designed to give you more bedroom confidence, deep connection & toe-curling ecstasy!  Get a greater understanding of femininity and unblock yours!  Unleash your sexy super power by embodying sensuality. Get a greater understanding of the female orgasm and unlock your potential for toe-curling ecstasy!


It’s perfect for you whether you are single, married, dating, sexless or having great sex.  It actually doesn’t matter because this course is about unleashing YOUR inner sexy and erotic femininity from the inside out!


Register for the first EARLY BIRD date of  March 21, 2022 and you’ll receive access to this BONUS GIFT valued at $499 for FREE!




Dr. Lori’s Emotional Support Animal – CoCo Mocha Love, 6yo mini poodle

Dr. Lori’s in-training ESA animal – Mighty “Ollie” Boy, 3yo PoodlePom

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“And You?  When will you begin that long journey into yourself?” ~RUMI



Imagine stepping into the nurturing energy of the mountains in Pinetop-Lakeside, Arizona and taking a breath of fresh air!  A desert state with hidden forests, rich in Mother Earth energy and therapeutic healing.  

Your weekend of unwinding will start with a happy hour full of energy, connections, laughter and new friends also looking to soothe their soul.  The evening will end with a Sister Sharing Circle around the firepit… bring your sweaters and scarfs because it really does get cold in Arizona!


Wake up to the quiet mountain views and several options for guided soul work.  You can sleep in or choose gentle yoga, meditation or explorative Nature Walks that will reconnect you to your center and relax your feminine Goddess.

Tuning into your body-mind-spirit will restore your balance and rejuvenate your body’s energy.  All tools and practices are designed to take into your daily life to build habits. After some fresh green juice, coffee and healthy breakfast you’ll be ready to jump into your day nourishing your spirit!


Friday and Saturday will have morning and afternoon sessions specific to your needs in healing needs!  Like Yoga Nidra, Nature Walking Meditation, Tarot card readings, fun mindful coloring activities and more! Catered to attending guests, the agenda will be full of epic activities and insights!

 After a soulful day, get ready for the Saturday evening decadent aphrodisiac dinner and dessert! This is your sexy night of fun, laughter and sex astrology talk!  Get to know YOU!


Sunday will offer the same mindful morning soul work, yoga Nidra, green juice and healthy brunch!  By now you will be relaxed, rejuvenated and feel more aligned with your true self!

We will close the weekend with a final sharing circle with your new friends.  Here you will see the impact of self-care, self-love, connection, nature, mindfulness work, healthy food, inner healing and the power of bearing witness for others to heal. 


Then with hugs and much love, we will bid you farewell until we see you again! 


“I don’t even know what it means to be a Goddess.” ~ anonymous


Don’t miss this magical weekend!

Registration Details Here!

What’s Included:

  • 3 Nights and 4 days of accommodations in a private,  cabin house in Pinetop, Arizona.
  • 3 1/2 days of a deep dive in soul sessions, mindfulness work and lots of juicy conversations!
  • A pre-trip preparation meeting to ask questions, meet travel companions and create intentions.
  • A post-trip follow up Zoom meeting to discuss integration challenges and outcomes
  • ALL planned programming and healing soul work:  Yoga, Yoga Nidra, QHHT, EFT, Matrix Re Imprinting, Soul Journey Hypnotherapy, Astrology, Human Design and maybe some sex talk!
  • 3  healthy breakfasts with freshly made green juice to kick start your day!
  • 3 tasty lunches to satisfy you but not put you to sleep
  • 3 delicious combination of dinners from hearty happy hour, Fajita Bar and the decadent aphrodisiac dinner Saturday night.
  • All non-alcoholic drinks, coffee, a 24-hour Tea House & freshly made green juice
  • Wine and Prosecco will be provided, along with healthy snacks + chocolate sweets
  • ALL meals and snacks will be catered to allergies and sensitivities
  • Use of the house WiFi,  HOT TUB, games and fenced yard
  • House is a spacious two levels with a loft, wrapping deck and panoramic views
  • Location is remote but not isolated and plenty of parking and privacy



Your RETREAT package does NOT include:

  • Transportation fees to or from Pinetop, AZ
  • Other alcoholic beverages not included in itinerary
  • Meals not included on the itinerary
  • Your shopping, additional purchases or any excursions
  • Personal, medical or trip cancellation insurance
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Sitting at an elevation of 7,000 ft, Pinetop-Lakeside offers clean crisp air, a mesmerizing star-filled sky, miles of trails through the world’s largest Ponderosa Pine Forest, and over 200 streams and lakes. This year-around, natural playground provides endless opportunities for all of your favorite outdoor activities. Remote, yet only a 1.5 – 2 hour drive from Phoenix!  Weather in April averages high 60’s-70’s and lows in the 40’s.

Take Me to The Mountains!


Picture your ideal wilderness retreat!  Then take it up a notch with this beautiful Redwood Cabin in Pinetop-Lakeside.  Empty your mind and breathe in some fresh mountain air on the Mogollon Rim Trail and enjoy the sunshine at Woodland Lake Park.

Sleeping 16… this 2-bedroom, 2.5 bath house + loft is complete with a gorgeous great room, private hot tub, and spacious fenced yard! In the backyard is the TEAM Casita with a Queen bed,  loft, 1/2 bath and small kitchen.

Sleeping arrangements are first come first serve and will be ironed out to meet everyone’s needs.  If you have a preference or special needs please indicate on your registration form.

    • Bedroom 1: King Bed
    • Bedroom 2: Queen Bed
    • Loft 1: Twin Bed w/ Twin Trundle
    • Loft 2: Twin Bed w/ Twin Trundle
    • Queen Futon
    • Bonus Room: Sleeper Sofa
    •  Studio/Casita: Queen Bed, 2 Full Beds



Your dedicated team will be staying in the Casita behind the house!  Which means you get the house to yourself to play games, laugh, drink wine, snack and not worry about a thing!

Take me to the cabin for an unforgettable retreat!

Registration Details Here!

* * * APRIL 21 – 24, 2022 * * *



    • Feeling refreshed, rejuvenated and reconnected with your inner Goddess and true self.
    • Complete relaxation of your mind-body; being waited on, cared for and pampered.
    • Experience living a healthy, balanced spiritual life with healthy foods, fun and mindfulness practices.
    • Learn healing tools and practices you can take home to empower yourself and your own soul work.
    • Using nature to do healing and mindfulness work.
    • Embodiment of inner peace and calm, tapping into your vibrant feminine energy and feeling recharged. 
    • The inspiration and energy you need to step into the life you love and dream of.
    • A community of like minded women who will become your support tribe and life long friends.
    • Discovering yourself at a deeper level and unleashing your feminine power!




Arrival Day – Thursday

  • 3 – 5  pm – Check In
  • 5:00 pm – Welcome Happy Hour
  • 8:00 pm – Sisters Intention Circle @ Fire Pit


Typical Retreat Day – Friday, Saturday

  • 8:30 am Yoga Nidra Meditation (optional but encouraged!)
  • 8 -10 am Breakfast Buffet Available
  • 10:00 am Morning Group Circle 
  • 1:00 pm Lunch Buffet
  • 4:00 pm Afternoon Group Circle
  • 7:00 pm Dinner Buffet or Sit Down
  • 8:00 pm Evening Group Circle
  • 9:30 pm Retreat to fire pit, games, or room


Departure day – Sunday

  • 1:00 pm – Final Brunch
  • 2:00 pm – Completion Circle
  • 3:00 pm – Check Out



“There is no greater privilege or humble honor than to be a safe space for someone to process their healing, bear witness to their pain, and offer my hand.  Being able to share the burden of their suffering while holding hope and heart space, is a humbling gift I take serious. Not only do I get to witness them step into their greatest selves… I get to experience being my best self.”

~ Lori C. Ebert, PhD


If you are still reading this, consider despite all your circumstances and concerns… your soul has led you here for a reason!

While you may not be sure, your soul is a yes for this catalytic healing opportunity.  It’s up to you to grab the hand that reaches for your greatness!

Registration Details Here!




Dr. Lori is a results driven Life, Relationship & Sexual Wellness Coach who specializes in behavior modification.  Her unique Sextacular® coaching, programs and events inspire others to “Make Love to Life! She empowers women, men and couples to have a good relationship with themselves and others; and to be healthy, happy, and passionate from the inside out.

She is a published author, TEDx speaker, former host of the Sextacular®YOU! radio-podcast, national speaker and has 28 years experience in health care, higher education and leadership development.

Results driven, her knack is creating special programs for exactly who you are and what you need to achieve the results you want.  Not for the faint of heart, she is a catalytic and “velvet-hammer” coach who works efficiently and effectively.  She wants you in your LIFE living, not in talk therapy.

Her teachable toolbox ranges from evidence based behavioral science, neuro plasticity skills (rewiring your brain), to therapeutic philosophies (CBT, DBT, ACT,) mindfulness (yoga, meditation, Yoga Nidra) and spiritual modalities (Astrology, Tarot, intuitive readings, Matrix Re-Imprinting, QHHT and EFT.)

Dr. Lori has dedicated her life to the health, sexual and spiritual wellness of others through her own challenges and healing journey.  Learn more or schedule a complimentary 10min call at or email .




Meet Vickie Stoddard, the kitchen manager and master of food!  Also an excellent chef herself!  Dr. Lori’s mother, along with a son and two granddaughters.  She has been married for 37+ years and is the matriarch of the family.  She brings balance, care, compassion and service everywhere she goes!  A dedicated volunteer, former Hospice worker, she offers insight, organization and excellent problem solving. Reliable, fun and loving she will ensure your food is perfect!  She is also dog mom to Lizzie, a yoga and Pickle Ball enthusiast and lives in Phoenix, Arizona.






Meet Kathy Slames, the other kitchen manager and master of fun!  An excellent chef as well, she brings fun wherever she goes!  She is Dr. Lori’s aunt, and Vickie’s sister.  She also has two sons and six grand kids!  She has been married for 45+ years and is the sunshine of the family.  She brings  happiness, silly fun and spirit everywhere she goes!  Fun and loving, she will ensure you have what you need with a smile.  She is a cat mom, loves food, arts & crafts and living by the lake in Ft. Sumner, New Mexico!






Meet Ms. “CoCo” Mocha Love, a 6yo miniature poodle. She was a miracle rescue puppy at 6 months old after Dr. Lori had eight people crossover.  Coco, injured and off the streets and Dr. Lori full of grief; they saved each other!  A trained emotional support dog, she works with Dr. Lori and her clients processing energy and supporting the emotions of clients.  Her mission in life is to greet people with her beautiful eyes, quick puppy kisses and amazing hugs!  Pretty, sweet and super smart she is an unforgettable LoveBug!






Meet the little boy dog with a super big personality… M.O.B. Mighty Ollie Boy!  Ollie is the newest rescue and in training to be part of the ESA team.  Almost 3 years old, he had a tough start to life.  Dr. Lori is his 5th and fur-ever mom!  Ollie is an active, spunky, and spirited little boy who loves to chase balls, run, jump and give lots of hugs!  An 11 lb. bundle of love, he’ll curl up in your lap and warm your heart.  If he’s not doing that, guaranteed he’ll find a ball and pester you to throw it!  He’s agile, fast and full of energy!





Cancellation Policy:

Any cancellation made between: March 11th, 2022 and April 11th. 2022 will result in a loss of 25% of the trip price. Any cancellation made between: April 11th, 2022 and the trip departure will result in a 50% loss of funds. We reserve the right to cancel the trip if it is not meeting the trip minimum (if so you will refunded in full).



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