Sex, Soul & Sovereignty™
Where Women Return to Rhythm, Power, and Sacred Pleasure.
UNRAVEL. EMBODY. RADIATE.
Step Into The PortalExplore this journey of Erotic Reclamation, Soulful Devotion & Sovereign Embodiment
A Sacred Relationship Recode...
For Women who are done playing small in love, sex, and self. It’s a multidimensional journey to embody rhythmic love, soulful sex, and untamed sovereignty — without collapse, co-dependence, or compromise.
This is not a course. It’s a living energy. A sacred space. A coming home.
What You're Moving Through
You've done conventional healing—but it no longer meets the soul depth you crave.
You long for intimacy, resonance, and sacred connection—not more performance or pretense.
You’re exhausted by choices that box your becoming and teachings that bypass your truth.
You crave a femininity rooted in soul, not surface. Wisdom, not performance.
You’ve outgrown old paradigms, but the new ones haven’t yet landed.
You know there’s more... but you're not sure where to find it. Or how to live it.
You're not broken. You're just unsovereign. And your re-membering begins here.
What You Will Transform
Shift your field. Anchor your rhythm. Embody your truth.
The Rhythm That Remembers You
This is a 12-month journey designed to re-pattern the deepest layers of your relationships, sensuality, nervous system, and sovereignty — not by “teaching” you, but by guiding you back into your own embodied knowing.
Every month, you’ll enter a new sacred rhythm — through ritual, ceremony, guided embodiment, and soul-led teachings that meet you exactly where you are.
“Love breathes best when held in rhythm.”
This is the work that turns off codependence, people-pleasing, overgiving, and sexual shutdown — and turns you back on.
What’s Offered Each Month:
- 🜂 One Core Teaching (live & recorded)
- 🜂 Full & New Moon Ceremonies
- 🜂 Yoga & Embodied Meditation
- 🜂 Pleasure Rituals
- 🜂 Journal Prompts + Soul Activation
- 🜂 Drop-In Codex Deep Dives for advanced rhythm work
Explore the Sovereignty Curriculum
Below is the energetic map of your transformation — each month a new layer, each layer a deeper return.
Module 1 - The Rhythm Remembers Her Flame
Reclaim your body’s truth through nervous system regulation, breath, and rhythmic embodiment.
Module 2 - Deconstructing Co-Dependence for Devotion
Liberate yourself from people-pleasing, over-giving, and approval-seeking. Practice sovereign devotion.
Module 3 - Erotic Sovereignty
Heal shame, awaken sensuality, and root into embodied pleasure as your compass.
Module 4 - Sacred Boundaries & Energetic Integrity
Build clean, clear energetic edges that protect your power and preserve your softness.
Module 5 - Love Without Losing Yourself
Restructure your relationship blueprint to call in (or keep) love that supports your wholeness.
Module 6 - The Womb as Oracle
Tune into the body’s deepest truth and let your womb wisdom guide your purpose, power & pace.
Module 7 - Sacred Sexuality & Feminine Alchemy
Explore pleasure, intimacy, and sexual healing in a safe, spacious, trauma-informed way.
Module 8 - From Numbing to Nourishment
End the addictions to wine, shopping, fantasy or “busy” — and return to present, nourished embodiment.
Module 9 - Sovereign Singledom & Magnetic Self-Love
Fall in love with yourself. Date yourself. Become the partner you long for.
Module 10 - Turn-On, Time, and the Truth of What You Hold
Reclaim your erotic life-force in the realities of business, family, and caretaking.
Module 11 - Devotion & Feminine Erotic Exploration
Stretch, play, and explore without shame — from sacred kink to subtle energetic turn-on.
Module 12 - The Codex of Eternal Rhythm & Living Purpose
Integrate everything. Reclaim your voice, rhythm, and soul-led mission beyond roles and survival.
“I don’t wait to be loved. I become the field.”
What Does My Soul Need?
Not sure where to begin? Start here. Let your longing lead. You don’t need to choose the “right” tier—You just need to listen to the frequency rising in your body. Breathe. Click which one speaks your name.
"I feel... Anxious. Curious. Tender at my edges."
“Even your longing is a form of arrival.”
→ The WITNESS may be your starting breath.
You’re awakening—but softly. A longing stirs, but clarity hasn't landed. You're not broken. You're becoming.
"I feel... Alone. Open. Longing for connection."
“Let yourself be held by women who remember your name before you say it.”
→ The CIRCLE may be your next spiral.
You’ve done some inner work, but ache for sacred space. You're ready to be seen—gently, truthfully.
"I feel... Scattered. Overextended. Craving rhythm."
“Your temple is not built—it is revealed.”
→ The TEMPLE may be your anchoring ground.
Your practices are fragmented. Your body misses ritual. You want coherence—structure with soul.
"I feel... Evolving. Restless. Ready for depth."
“Your reflection is not your past—it is your potency.”
→ The MIRROR may be your transformation gateway.
Surface tools don’t meet you anymore. You want to be mirrored in the sacred. Coached in your becoming.
"I feel... Hungry. Devoted. Yearning for mastery."
“The gate opens the moment you stop asking for permission.”
→ The PORTAL may be your rite of passage.
You’re ready for ceremony. Ritual architecture. Inner architecture. Soul-mapping.
"I feel... Called. Leading. Holding more than most."
“Sacred stewardship begins with being radically held.”
→ The PRIESTESS may be your return to origin.
You hold others—but who holds you? You’re ready for depth, devotion, and to rise in lineage.
Choose Your Sacred Portal
This isn’t just a program. It’s a temple. A multidimensional experience woven to support your awakening, embodiment, and sacred leadership.
“I do not open to be taken. I open to be met.”
Spiral inward where resonance calls. Begin where your soul feels most met. Every tier is a temple and every temple opens you more.
A Magic Whisper...
The Witness
The Portal of Awakening
Perfect for sacred self-inquiry. Quiet devotion. Soft awakening. Beginning again—not from scratch, but from wisdom.
- Replays of Monthly Group Coaching & FAQ's
- 24/7 Access to Replay Library
- Program eBook & Magic Meditation Playlist
A Magic Whisper...
The Circle
The Portal of Connection
You don’t have to walk alone. This is your orbit of remembrance. Where curiosity meets community.
- Everything in The Witness, plus:
- LIVE group coaching call
- PDF Workbook & Community Access
A Magic Whisper...
The Temple
The Portal of Devotion
For women ready to root into sacred structure and embodied visibility. Your rhythm is your ritual.
- Everything in The Circle, plus:
- Monthly LIVE Gentle Yoga-Meditation
- Magic Meditation Guidebook & Oracle Cards
A Magic Whisper...
The Mirror
The Portal of Becoming
Where light meets shadow. Sacred ceremony begins. Your reflection is not your past—it is your potency.
- Everything in The Temple, plus:
- 1 Private Coaching Session monthly
- LIVE Monthly Moon Ritual
- Ritual Kit Guidebook & Mystic Ritual Circle
A Magic Whisper...
The Portal
The Portal of Alchemy
Build your inner architecture. Alchemize and anchor your becoming in devotion. What you commit to transforms.
- Everything in The Mirror, plus:
- 2 Private Coaching Sessions monthly
- Soul Code® Report & Interpretation Session
A Magic Whisper...
The Priestess
The Portal of Embodiment
This is not a destination—it is your legacy spiral. Sacred stewardship begins with being radically held.
- Everything in The Portal, plus:
- 3 Private Coaching sessions monthly
- Unlimited text/VM/Marco Polo support
- Soul Architect Harmonic® Report & Guidebook
- VIP Access & Discounts
From The Alchemist's Library
Deepen your journey with these sacred tools, available for individual purchase.
Sovereignty Ascension Map©
Chart Your Path
Soul Code© Report
Unlock Your Blueprint
Magnetic Meditations
Attune Your Frequency
What Women Are Saying
“Since working with Lori, our relationship has reached levels of intimacy and connection we never imagined. I feel more safe, seen, and supported than ever before... Her work is pure magic.”
It's hard for me to express how thankful I am to you, without having tears roll down my cheeks! Dr. Lori you are truly a gift, a beacon of light in the black of night, a rainbow of life on a dark and stormy day. You are the one who helped, and for that, there are not enough Thank You's in this Universe!
“Dr. Lori didn’t just help me leave an abusive marriage—she helped me come home to myself. Her coaching gave me the courage to choose a life I never thought possible. Today, my children and I are free, at peace, and finally living with joy.”
Your Guide to the Inner Realms
Meet Dr. Lori C. Ebert
Founder of Sextacular® & Soul Architect of Sovereignty
Dr. Lori is a trailblazing educator, coach, and sacred spaceholder helping women remember who they truly are—beyond conditioning, beyond shame, beyond limitation. As a Ph.D. Health Educator, Relationship & Sexual Wellness Coach, she bridges the science of healing with the soul of embodiment.
Her work gently guides you from where you are—stressed, disconnected, or craving more—into the sanctuary of who you’re becoming: awakened, empowered, sovereign.
“I’m not here to teach you. I’m here to remind you.” ~ Dr. Lori
“What if feeling your edges was your greatest rebirth?”
Your liberation is not a luxury.
The edge is calling. It's where your most vibrant, authentic, and sovereign self resides. Are you ready to meet her?
Begin Your JourneyFrequently Arising Questions
What if I'm afraid of what I'll uncover?
Fear is the guardian at the gate of your transformation. This entire journey is designed as a safe, trauma-informed container. We don't bypass fear; we learn to dance with it. You will be held, guided, and given tools to navigate every emotion that arises, turning apprehension into aliveness.
Is this just about sex?
We explore sexuality as a potent gateway to your life-force energy (Eros), but this work is holistic. It's about how that energy informs your creativity, your career, your relationships, and your purpose. It's about reclaiming your full-spectrum power, from the bedroom to the boardroom.
I'm so busy. Can I fit this in?
This program is designed for integration, not overwhelm. It is an act of reclaiming your time and energy, not a drain on it. The practices are meant to be woven into your life, creating more presence and vitality, so you operate from a place of overflow, not burnout.
What does 'Sovereignty' really mean?
Sovereignty is the unshakable knowing that you are the ultimate authority in your own life. It's the embodiment of your truth, the honoring of your desires, the upholding of your boundaries, and the courageous expression of your unique soul signature. It is your power, reclaimed and embodied.
What if I can't attend the LIVE sessions?
No problem at all. Every tier includes 24/7 access to our replay library, so you can engage with the material at your own pace. For those in The Circle and above, our private community portal is always active, allowing you to connect with sisters and receive support anytime.